I am probably one of these men. I stayed single for many years. I’m sometimes not sure why my wife found me as a life companion. BTW we have been married for 7 years, with a few bumps along the way.
I took the True Colors personality test about 10 years ago. That helped explain a lot of how the world works. Before I couldn’t understand why the world was not so enamored with my logic and reasoning (or even wanting to discuss alternatives to a particular problem). True Colors taught me that we are not built the same way — and the non-logic personalities had their important parts to play in this game of life.