I hope this article finds its way to a lot of men and makes them think.
I have to admit that the group of guys I had hung around with had some rather bad attitudes towards women as sex objects. But we never took things to the level these guys did. I remember one party where a young lady got too drunk and passed out. Patrick took her to his room, put her to bed (no clothes removed), then returned to the party. He cleaned up her vomit later. It seems strange that we would never take advantage of that situation, but consensual one-night stands were still the goal.
Somehow, I think we need to redefine our definition of “fun”. Alcohol is just plain dangerous in so many ways.