This woman-taking-her-man's-name is one tradition we should stop doing.
High heeled shoes is another tradition that should be stuffed. Nothing good comes out of this fashion. Ask my wife and her two bunion surgeries.
When my son was born, he took my surname as his; his middle name was my wife's surname. Reverse would have happened if it was a daughter. Sort of like the Spanish tradition.
Hopefully I haven't shamed you.
My stepson wanted to change his surname to my surname. Knowing all the legal hassles, I told him to wait until he is 18.